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Why does my boyfriend have 2 fake facebook accounts with 2 different emails?

Asked by pami16 (152points) June 23rd, 2016

So I just found out that my boyfriend has an extra facebook account, he had told me before that he does have a facebook account with a fake name (that he has for quite some time) I looked for it with his email and it’s true no content on it whatsoever, but I recently wrote down his other email that he was using the other days and I got a glance wrote it down, and I also looked for it on facebook and guess what there is another account under a fake name as well, but this time its with a profile picture of himself, which is actually very very weird since he hates taking pictures (believe me back in Thanksgiving that was a dilemma he did not want to take pictures with me because he ’’ hates’’ pictures and so on) anyway I don’t know if I am overreacting, but since I have always felt that he is quite mysterious, this is the cherry on top and know I am beginning to think what can possibly be going on.

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Dutchess_III's avatar

If you don’t feel you can trust a guy, it’s best to walk away, really.

cookieman's avatar

Sounds dishonest. You may want to ask him directly.

Seek's avatar

Is this the guy who won’t kiss you and has a secret phone number?

Maybe it’s for him to organize his secret bisexual flings .

imrainmaker's avatar

Why is he still your boyfriend? Seems like he’s cheating on you looking at your previous questions.

johnpowell's avatar

Serious questions here.

What do you get out of this relationship?

Do you realize normal relationships aren’t this hard?

Why not find someone that is normal?

elbanditoroso's avatar

Haven’t you asked this before?

The guy is a two timing cheater, so wake up and smell the coffee.

NerdyKeith's avatar

Maybe he was just using them to troll on random Facebook groups.

cookieman's avatar

I’d really like to hear answers to @johnpowell‘s questions (at least the first one).

Pandora's avatar

For kicks I would take his picture and tag it with his unknown facebook page and say he’s your boyfriend and see what crawls out of the woodwork.
If he’s dating someone else and they are friends with him in his other facebook link, they will probably notify you.

pami16's avatar

@Pandora Hey there pandora thanks for the reply!, the problem is that he has no content on any of the pages,there is nothing in it but I have not added him either,perhaps if I add him he wont add me back, basically it looks like two empty facebook accounts perhaps to look around, but the fact that he has a profile picture of himself when he hates pictures in all the sense of the word its what I find suspicious, one day I asked him to take pictures with me and he did not want to at all he looked so uncomfortable,eventually I got so dissapointed that I never asked him anymore.

Jak's avatar

Oh no, he’s totally faithful to you. It’s all a horrible mistake. And his stance that he hataes pictures of himself is TOTALLY legit. Has nothing at all to do with anything like he might be recognized by someone doing something he shouldn’t be doing. Rest easy dear, he’s all yours.
And your picture shows that you’re so much more than a pretty girl, you must have lots to recommend you. I’ll bet you’re witty, bright, well read and a fantastic conversationalist. I especially like the way you give consideration to all the responses and don’t hone in on just one that says something like what you want to hear; it shows you have depth of mind as well as great maturity. Well done.
There there. All will be well, and all will be well, and all manner of thing will be well. Start looking for a wedding dress. I just know he’s saving up for a huge rock for you and will pop the question on bended knee any day now. This relationship is solid as a rock and really going places. Be sure to send all of us invitations!

pami16's avatar

@Jak LOL your great,I just love your sense of humor its delightful! haha, I laughed so hard I almost felt down LIKE OMG!.

Jak's avatar

My great what?

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Multiple Facebook accounts, two phones, two apartments, he hates kissing you even during sex, never gives gifts… Why are you still with him? I can’t see this as anything other than him using you. There are clearly aspects of his life that he absolutely doesn’t want you to be a part of.

How old are you?

gorillapaws's avatar

The dude sounds shady. I’d bail and get a guy who treats you right. Better yet, spend some “you time” to figure out why you’d stay with someone who treated you like that. You should probably figure that one out before dating again, or you could find yourself in an even worse situation.

I’m sorry you are dealing with this. Stand up for yourself. Best wishes/luck to you in the future. I hope you find a guy some day that treats you with the respect you (and everyone else) deserves.

jca's avatar

I hate to tell you this but this man is not your boyfriend. He may be a friend you are fucking but no matter what he allows you to refer to him as, he is not a boyfriend.

pami16's avatar

@jca UPDATE!!!I came up with the decision of dumping him because honestly he is lying and obviously he will keep on doing it, and another thing I DISCOVERED was that he actually has one mutual friend with me which is a guy that gives classes in the university that we both went to and guess what!! he is GAY (The teacher), so now I am wondering if he is a closeted gay guy( which I was suspecting) and thats why I was feeling that he was sort of mysterious and weird all along, I mean if you think about it why did he have a profile picture if he does not like pictures and was reluctant to take pictures with me ? and why did he add someone that he knows,especially if hes trying to go unknown with a fake names and accounts!( yet he had a picture of him the profile pic with a freaking fake name nahhh bruh LOL).it does not make sense especially if that teacher knows his real name,sometimes I just have to laugh of all the crazy things I see and witness LOL! I feel I put together the puzzle, Tell me your opinions,of this NEW UPDATE!

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Well… it’s still hard to say whether or not he’s gay, but in terms of dumping him, I think you very much made the right choice. Always trust your instincts. Because, even if he isn’t gay, you know that all of his behavior is very much not okay and he wasn’t treating you or your relationship with the kind of respect that he should have been.

Just continue to focus on yourself and the kind of life you want and don’t go back.

ottosarmy's avatar

I don’t know about the FBI but in the CIA we are taught to keep many different aliases and cover our tracks so not to be caught by sneaky double agents, did you ever think he set that up to see if you were sneaking around behind his back going through his things.

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