We hug, tell each other we’re sorry for the angry way of the argument and then it moves on into the resolution, talk-about-it part. Arguing styles are important to learn, arguing is important sometimes too, shows that one or the other (both is best) wants something better to happen and is still interested in evolving the relationship. I’ve noticed people who don’t want to argue or talk about “bad/negative” aspects are pretty much not invested anymore, they’re either beat down and feeling hopeless or else they think because they say, “I love you” then the relationship will form and maintain itself.