I was in 3rd grade when I went to live with them…so they never really had to get on the floor with me. I love my grandparents and it is difficult to be without them now. (I still think about calling them every one in awhile)
The generation gap was difficult as I grew older and stived for independence. My advise, keep with the times (start learning technology if you don’t know about it already), hang out with Mother’s Day Outers or Mom and Me clubs, build your support network.
I appreciate all that they gave up to better my life. They had lost their daughter (my mother) the day I was born and they never quit grieving her death. My dad was absent, a void in my life. I think that they were proud of me, though. Things were tough for everyone, but things worked out. I know I am better for it.
Your little one just appreciates your soothing voice, your gentle touch, and your time. One more thing, it’s very important to not talk about her parents negatively. She could internalize it and think something’s wrong with her. Again, build your support network!