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How do you get a boyfriend?

Asked by peanutbutter97 (106points) October 27th, 2010
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I don’t want a stupid one. I want smart one that is cute.

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wundayatta's avatar

You can get a boyfriend trap in almost any hardware store.

erichw1504's avatar

Check your local grade school.

peanutbutter97's avatar

Why do I need to work on my grammar?

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Get involved in activities where you will meet alot of different boys.
From there you can pick your victim ;)

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FutureMemory's avatar

Because you said “I want smart one”.

peanutbutter97's avatar

Oh. Now I see. I forgot to look over my work. Sorry!

janbb's avatar

Just go about being the smartest, cutest most authentic you you can be. Live your life, get involved in things you love doing and inevitably, a boyfriend will eventually ensue. As with most things in life, when you stop looking, it will happen.

Aethelwine's avatar

@janbb has great advice. Or you can check your local listings for boyfriend breeders.

Cruiser's avatar

You want a smart and cute boyfriend then look smart and cute. You want lots of smart and cute boyfriends then look dumb and cute. ;)

tedd's avatar

Just be yourself, show interest when you have it, and smile.

If you show too much skin, you’ll attract boys that just want skin. Not that you shouldn’t show off a bit though…. love at first sight isn’t based off of intellect.

Winters's avatar

playing the dumb and helpless or just the helpless card (aka the Siren’s Song) should attract plenty, from there you pick your victim.

bob_'s avatar

Put out.

EDIT: Wait, were you born in 97? If so, disregard this advice.

bb9335's avatar

stop looking. they always come at the most inconvenient times :P

answerjill's avatar

I’ll let you know when I figure it out!

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LuckyGuy's avatar

Here’s the list to avoid: the loud-mouths, the bullies, the ones with anger issues, the one who think drinking and drugs are cool, the smokers, the sulkers, the vampire freaks, the misbehavers.
That leaves only a handful of honest, smart, dependable boys. Go for them. It is not well known but they make the best partners. You be the same.

Rubrica's avatar

Give up and wait for opportunity to come knocking on your proverbial door. People can be remarkable obtuse when it comes to realising that someone likes them, and after a year and a half of being in unrequited limerence with someone, I can tell you now that it’s really not worth dropping everything to pursue getting a boyfriend.

peanutbutter97's avatar

Thanks for all the advice/

peanutbutter97's avatar

What if I get one and then there is one of the guys that don’t know and I really like him. He likes me back and asks me out. What should I do then?

janbb's avatar

Maybe you don’t want to commit to having any one boyfriend at this age but keep yourself free to, as we used to say, “play the field.”

peanutbutter97's avatar

I have this friend and we both like the same guy. She thinks she will get him but he already likes me and he likes her but ever since I went to this school we have been hanging out and he is my best friend. Do I break my friends heart or the guy who likes me.

janbb's avatar

@peanutbutter97 I suspect it is up to the guy to choose – not in your or your friend’s power to determine.

peanutbutter97's avatar

He won’t answer either of us either

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