I can think of 3 that I know personally, yes. I can think of others that have jumped in on the conversation, and although they didn’t give me the details of their paychecks, have said that the percentage that they share with their ex is considerable enough to make it nearly impossible for them to survive, themselves.
I happen to be married to a man who was paying 70% of his income for years while we were together, it nearly destroyed us financially. The media plays up the deadbeat dad aspect in most cases, but it is never taken into consideration how difficult it might be for the fathers to meet the financial requirements from the state. I’m not saying that is always the case, but there are plenty of guys who fall through the cracks and have no chance to defend themselves because the media and society have given such a bad name to men who are do not have sole custody of their children.
Granted “3” people isn’t exactly a ton, but considering those are ones that I know personally, it sure feels like a lot. It also feels like “a lot” when that money is leaving your household.
In many states it is not even legal to take that much.
Of course, there are also countless women that don’t make a cent from child support. Probably more of them than the other, but that doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t factor in as a possibility.