I am coming to realize that narcissists react pretty much only to their own needs – D’Oh! If you are friends with one and you get hurt by them for ignoring you, are you being foolish? At what point do you walk away even if they are a good friend (or family member) when they are not so self-involved? Does this make any sense? This has happened to me several times in my life and is an issue I am just now focusing on.