Fluther is more like the bond that is formed between a group of people who spend time together in a controlled environment. We share stories about our past and our hopes that those that are close to us may not know. We learn to adimre, appreciate, and respect each other, even though there are differences in perspectives and personalities.
We learn from each other. Some of this comes from not tip-toeing around the subject or feeling safe to say what one feels need to be said. We often cannot or will not do this with our loved ones for a variety of reasons. When in an environment where we feel comfortable to talk about inner feelings and have them accepted, it is bound to create a bond.