@OmegaGraham
that’s the main problem with Fluther. Users who are more interested in showing off than answering the questions.
You stated in your previous thread that you understood that you shouldn’t stereotype women. And yet, you do it again here. @Likeradar did answer the question, as it’s impossible to say because everyone is different.
The problem isn’t with Fluther, and the fact that you stereotyped the users here in the above statement really supports that the problem seems to be more with you. I do not mean to offend, but I gotta be blunt about it. You are a new user, and are already assuming that you understand the motivations of the membership here. I suggest, if you’re actually interested, you lurk for a while, look at what is being asked and how people are answering, before you make that judgment.
If you don’t see that, this may actually be why you’re feeling or actually are becoming unsuccessful in the dating sphere – your view is skewed a certain way and therefore you add motivations to people’s actions based on your assumptions about what they are thinking.
Can you see what I’m talking about? Or do you disagree.