I understand @iamthemob. There are those who benefit from sharing their woes with others. I am not one of them. Three reasons…
If I share, I end up feeling more miserable because I see what a whiner I’ve become. Not who I want to be.
I want everyone out of my way so I can concentrate on fixing the trouble. Not concentrate on anyone else’s feelings about my troubles. I’ll either piss you off exposing your unqualified assessment for what it is, or get caught up in falsely praising you for your wisdom. Neither solves my troubles. It’s just in the way, and adds to the trouble.
I can’t remember the last one. Memory is in fact one of my troubles you know. But we don’t need to get into that here… pah-leeze.