I’d only leave if it turned out what I’d been thinking was a good relationship was actually a farce.
If my partner had been supressing a homosexual nature, I’d let him go.
If my partner was hiding addictions they had no plan on kicking, I’d let him go.
If my partner was “settling” to be with me instead of wanting with his their heart and passion to choose me over all others, I’d let him go. This one’s a huge issue for me because I don’t want someone’s love because I’m deserving, the best they think they can get or what other people say they should be thankful for. I want my partner to choose me because they can’t think of being without me.