Welcome to Fluther! Don’t worry about the dream. They are made up of people, places, and things that we have experienced, and some that we haven’t. The mind seems to be a scrambled dumping ground during sleep. Otherswise, I’d be after Katie Holmes’ spot by Tom Cruise’s side, which is just an icky thought.

Karma, while I don’t buy into it, holds more valid statistical data that supports it than any dream-supported information that I’ve read or experienced.

It most likely means you want to have a threesome with them.

I think you gave the response in your own explanation “this sounds pretty bad”. A sense of guilt.

It’s not “bad”, you can’t control who you fall for, or what the situation is when you do. It’s perfectly fine. The question is how do you deal with it?

How I usually deal with crushes on people who are taken. Express it in a form of non-threatening compliment. Clear, but non-possessive. And then let it be. I don’t like to stress a relationship. But I think the person deserves to know, and it can be helpful given they also have a more mature way of dealing with it. Then, I shift my gaze to other things and people. I did my part, was honest—put some effort into not being possessive or attached. Let it become what it will :)

It is your guilt about having feelings for someone else’s boyfriend. Forget him. Move on with your life. Don’t contact him.

Dreams are completely meaningless. This one included.

The characters in your dreams are aspects of yourself. The crush is a part of you that you like. The girlfriend is a kind of opposing power in your personality. You are most likely undergoing some kind of internal struggle that has to do with your future or your identity. Are you making plans for a major change?

I had a dream like this