I guess personally I would rank them based on which I’d rather have happen. There’s a lot more in my email – so that’s a check in that column. Also, you can end up looking through someone’s phone just because you’re nosy – a bad quality, but not a hurtful one by necessity. The email takes some pretty positive steps – get on computer, log onto site, use password, open files, start looking. So that’s another for email. So I would rather the cell phone opposed to the email, and I think email snooping is more wrong.
However it’s pretty moot, I think. There’s a line that, once you cross it, the various levels of wrongness beneath it are all going to require some major trust rebuilding. Bioth email and phone snooping, for me, fall below that line.