1) When some “men” act like boys and goof off, talk crudely, and forget their manners.
2) When men forget or deliberately decide not to groom themselves properly and look like total slobs——they don’t shave, bathe, or dress properly (guys, neck-ties are made to be done up, not left half-strung-up!), comb their hair, brush their teeth, or wear clean clothes and/or footwear. Looking “manly” and “masculine does not entail looking like a caveman or a slob. Lol. And if you’re going to wear a classy suit or a tuxedo, complete the package by combing that hair in place, getting a clean shave, and shine your shoes! What’s the point of wearing a nice suit or tuxedo if the rest of you is dirty?
3) When men are rude to their lady friends and act ungentlemanly——do not open doors for their girlfriends, help them carry heavy things, etc.
4) When men are controlling and bossy to their lady friends.
5) When men fight with other men in front of women. How vulgar.
Now, a lot of things can be said for “how women act badly in front of their men friends” too! Lol.