Do you mean in RL honey or just here on fluther? I don’t understand, honestly, I’m probably just being dense as usual. Here on fluther, surely the only advice anyone can securely, with any authority, give is their own experiences. So if someone posts a question here, isn’t that what we’re supposed to do? along the lines of “this happened to me too and maybe X, Y or Z might help, or this is what I did etc…..”
I must have misunderstood this question I think, maybe. Why would anyone post a question (in general I mean, not this one) when they don’t want anyone to reply (“wanting someone to just listen”) and the “You’re looking for support” doesn’t that imply that the OP had already made their mind up and just wanted folk to agree? again why post a question if they don’t want anyone’s opinion which doesn’t agree with their already made up mind? I’m muddled lol.
Do you mean in RL? I’ve just read our fellow jellies replies above this and they seem to be referring to interactions with people in RL? I think I might have got it all wrong (not for the first time). Not sure anymore <is confused>. As I said above, here on fluther, (having read your question again) you might be talking about my replies easily, because the only experiences I have to share are mine I suppose. I haven’t offended you (or anyone else) have I honey? please tell me if I have? see? now I’ve gone into paranoid mode, need a cuppa <hugs> xx
EDIT: @YoBob THAT’S what I was trying to say (and making a dogs dinner of it) hugs xx