There’s that argument “If they’ve got nothing to hide then why not show?” and also “If you trust me then why would you have to look?”

I know from personal experience when my bf gave me his passwords to everything it slowly became a habit of regularly checking up. Whether it was harmless or not, it’d even create arguments or a constant wonder. I think of it as eavesdropping where you get PART of the story but you think you’ve got the whole story.

I’ve also heard of being open with your accounts…and then the significant other turns everything into SOMETHING whether small or not.