I cut my answer short when I got interrupted..
I actually wanted to add that ‘needy’ sounds so negative, and I’m sorry people here on this thread are calling you that. Everyone, and I mean everyone is needy, vis a vis, we all have needs and there is no shame in that. In your context, you mean, perhaps, ‘am I asking too much of him’, and the answer is, yes.
A very dear friend of mine once told me, ‘One person can’t be everything to another person.’ I was devastated at first, because I was so in love and couldn’t understand why he didn’t want to spend as much time with me as I did him. I recognise now, that I had a tendency to be obsessive, possessive and smothering, and that is not a healthy kind of lovin’.
I realised I had to build myself as a person and had some growing up to do. I took up some sports, gained a new group of friends to integrate into my life, got fit and a had a healthier sense of self respect and I grew and so did my ability to love and be loved.