First of all-my mother would be the absolute last person on earth that I would talk about sex with! One of my ex boyfriends from high school recently told her that I never went all the way with him and she should be proud that I was such a good girl because boy, did he ever try!! I was absolutely mortified that he told her that!
Secondly- I have one girlfriend that is very comfortable in her sexuality that wouldn’t be embarrassed to talk about sex in general but I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about very specific details with. We are both married and I really don’t believe in kiss and tell. I think it’s disrespectful to complain about things you don’t like (disrespectful to your SO) and when it’s things that you do like it sounds like bragging. I don’t think too many people want to hear how great your sex life is. esecially not in excruciating detail I could be wrong here.
Thirdly-My husband is very old fashioned when it comes to talking about sex. (not our sex life which he will talk about, just my past) He thinks it’s inappropriate and undignified. He sort of missed the whole sexual revolution I think, lol. I am very open and would talk to him about past boyfiriends but he finds that threatening I think and even a little distasteful. He is how he is and I respect that.
Fifth-My siblings. When I was younger, like in my 20s, I could talk to my sisters quite openly. As I get older and have been married I don’t share those things anymore with them.
Lastly-I have a lot of male friends that I go way back with. They are like brothers to me. I can tell them absolutely anything. I find that men are less judgemental. They also share with me tales of their exploits and derring do. one of them has an Errol Flynn obsession,lol