It was really silly for me… My mom bought me the “body changing” books around middle school (a little bit late, seeing as I was pretty developed before sixth grade started, which may make my username make more sense), but never really had a sex talk with me. In high school, however, I was dating a guy long distance and I went on a college visiting trip with my dad, seeing my boyfriend two weekends in a row. In between the two weekends, in a lull in conversation, my dad asked me if I had any questions (I didn’t have the heart or nerve to tell him that I had had sex just a few days prior), but I just declined and moved on quickly. The next time I went to see him, I was staying in a hotel in his town for a few days. Before I left, I was grocery shopping with my mom and she very awkwardly asked me not to bring him into my hotel room when I was there. I agreed, but we essentially spent the whole weekend there. So I never really got a talk, nor am I sure that my parents know I’m not a virgin. My hunch is that my dad suspects, but doesn’t want to know, and my mom doesnt really know, or is in severe denial.