So my situation is like this :

I have a boyfriend (he’s European) , he is 23 this year while he has a half-sister who is about 16.

I am not sure why but there are some things they do together which makes me feel really bad inside , and very uncomfortable.

Like there was once , I witnessed my him playing with his sister on the bed – tickling , grabbing each other like fighting , him pulling her to the bed and pushing her down , etc… And I am not sure why but I felt really uncomfortable about it but I just pretended that I was not looking . His sister even said ‘hey , your girlfriend is looking at us’ but he just continued to do it .

Then I talked to him about it after it happened , and I told him that I was really uncomfortable with it . And instead of understanding where I am coming from and talking things out , he said that I am being unreasonable and said that I am thinking too much . And got really angry , probably felt accused or something .

However , I am an Asian girl and basically I was brought up with Asian values and traditions . I am not sure if this has to do with me feeling uncomfortable about it or was those few incidents of them being physically close , just natural ? Because from what I know , most of us start feeling awkward in playing rough with our siblings of an opposite sex after a certain age .

I need opinions, please share . Thank you in advance !

Topics: relationships, love, siblings, traditions, cultures