The real in the deal of that, I would believe there are many men who like women, place greater value in the size of their dumbstick and boobies. Society, after all, propagates that belief every year. The same way it propagates those who are small enough not to have to wear a bra, to wear one. It is supposed to be OK to have breast or a dumbstick of any size. They have sayings “It is not the size, it is what you do with it” It is not the size of the fiddle, it is the skill of the fiddler”, etc. While that might be true; Physically a larger sex wand will create more friction, but it is also true that more friction not applied correctly is little more than no friction at all. Nevertheless, society lends the belief that the bigger it is, the tighter it fits the less skill the ”fiddler” has to have. A ”fiddler” who has a BIG fiddle, and knows how to use it is some bedroom god. Size goes matter, but I think it only actually is the king maker in my est. 40 to 60% of the time. There is always another orifice smaller men can use to get that tightness, and it will be easier for many women too not to be buggered by an overly large dumbstick. As long as people buy into the notion that bigger boobs, or a larger dumbstick will rule the roost, people will stress over them, feeling if they were bigger it would be better. If it seems to be better, maybe the only reason why was that it increase what they always had between their ears, it just channeled, or dialed it in better, not that anything physically got any better.