Don’t have a ton of expectations going in… This might sound bad, or pessimistic, but it’s not. From my experience, college is not like Van Wilder. Keep an open mind and don’t be upset if it’s not exactly how you’d pictured it. Everyone has a totally different experience.
Regardless of what you’re told about packing, you will likely pack way more than you need. Just send it back at Christmas so you don’t have a ton to move out at the end of the year.
If you’re a little worried, it’s okay. It’s normal. I went through this two years ago, and it turned out fine. It was really hard for me to adjust, especially since my major doesn’t exactly have a bunch of close-knit people. Just keep an open mind. I lived in honors housing my first year, and the people were quirky, to say the least… At first I was not very open to them, but now I’m really happy to see them when we pass on the street or run into each other. Just take each day as it comes, and if at first you don’t feel happy there, or don’t like it… don’t give up. Give it time and it will get better.
As far as relationships… just see what happens. Try not to get too tied down or too serious. Afterall, you’re probably only 18. Have fun, but take it seriously. You’re there to get your education, and trust me, I’ve seen quite a few people who don’t seem to grasp that… and end up failing miserably, not because they’re stupid, but because they don’t care. This all sounds pretty down.. but I don’t mean to! Have fun, good luck, and you’ll be fine! Take pride in knowing that you went away someone and did it on your own. On days when I feel like I should’ve stayed closer, I remind myself that at least I did it on my own.
Good luck.