Back story: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half. Before that we were best friends for 6 years. Our lives are incredibly intertwined. Anyway, last summer I found out he cheated on me. I had the feeling something was up and I straight up asked him and he denied it. Later the girl came forward and told me what was up. I was heartbroken. Beyond heartbroken. We broke up, but again, our lives are intertwined. I finally came to the decision to give it another go (much to the dismay of my friends). It took a long time to even be able to look at him.

Anyway, things got back to normal. A good normal. Comfortable and full of love. Then, about a week ago I got a feeling something was up, but now i’m not sure if something really is or if i’m just projecting. I made a deal with myself that if I was going to try this relationship again I was going to give it a fair shake and not dwell on the past.

Yes I’m aware that this whole story makes me sound like a pussy. Yes, I know that i’m not doing anything to help myself or feminism. But, that’s love, at least for me.

I guess I don’t want to bring it up unless I’m sure. But going about collecting evidence doesn’t seem like something I could do. I’m not the type to snoop in someone’s phone or anything. I don’t know.

Basically, i’m wondering if anyone has been in the same position and has any advice.