“I am very close friends with this man and his wife. If ever I am having a problem, they are there for me. we re in this group, and there is this very nice girl in the group that became my friend. She was in the group with them longer than me. She is also quit younger than me. I am approaching 40, she, late 20’s. We became like sisters, especially because we same similar illnesses, and we are both single and funny. Anyway, i have been noticing lately, that my friend (the husband), never really talks with her or does any activity with her. Its always me and the rest of us in the group that he gives attention to.I just came, and I am involved in many activities that he puts together. But I rarely ever see him interact or invite her. She’s so nice and classy girl, very kind and sweet; never had a boyfriend; not the flirt type. But, he has a very different attitude towards her, and so does she towards him. When i am with him, he never talks about her, although i talk about her a lot. Only his wife and me and the rest of the group likes her. Why is she being treated so differently by him? I rarely see then talking, and when I do they, you can cut the tension with a knife (like they want to get away from each other) They barely look at each other. He seems condescending towards her sometimes. I am not implying that he should spend time with her. All i am saying is, he treats the rest of us, including other females friends, like myself, way better than he treats her. I am asking about this because over a long period of time its becoming obvious. I did not want to make a big deal of it and ask him in case he would be uncomfortable with the subject. (He’s our group organizer) ”

UPDATE:
Yesterday the group went to an even. We all car-pooled together. My friend (young female), went into one car group, while i drove another. She did not take a ride with her aunt as usual. Anyway the older guy (my other friend), drove also. when the day was over from the even, I saw and somewhat overheard them talking. She was getting out of someone’s vehicle and heading towards the one she came in. She had to pass him by to get to it. He jump infront of her, to my surprise, and said soemthing to the effect of “your aunt left you”, in a sarcastic way. She looked irritated with him. I think she said “Well I did not come her with her”. Then she walked passed him and turn around to give him an evil eye. I was like “wow, what’s going on?”. So out of curiosity, I watched his face from a distance, he was staring at her while she walked around. He had a look of irritation and embarrassment. I knwo maybe I shoudl ask him what’s going on, but I am thinking maybe he would be ambarrassed to know that someone is noticing his behavior. And whenever she is around, he is always calling my name and telling me he has to talk to me about something. But nothing about her ever comes up.

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