Well, I have 3 siblings. The oldest is my Brother, he is 5 years older then me. We were never close and throughout my years I would always try to get “approval” from him. Be like him, do things that he would think were cool and would want to spend time with me for. It never really worked. Now that were adults were more like there for each other when we need, but other then that not alot of contact.
Next oldest is my sister, shes 3 years older then me. Her and I NEVER were close. If you asked me about her all I could tell you is that shes older then me, is a “goody two shoes” and is a “girly girl”. It wasn’t until I was about 22 that we became “friends”. I think that once again, it took growing up and learning lifes lessons for us to be able to understand each other. We are now best-friends. Talk everyday. I think that with us it was just becoming mature enough for us to be able to accept the differences between us and seeing each other for the people that we are. It started with a friendship of sorts and grew to a bond that nothing could break.
Then there my younger brother, hes 10 years younger then me. From the time he was born I was barely around him, when we were together it was just fighting constantly. Mainly because of the age difference. I wasn’t a part of his life till he was about 12. Since then I cant imagine not being in it. He annoys me to no end but I keep in mind that hes my little brother. And surprisingly we have alot in common that we never gave a chance to find before. I live across the country from all of them now but my little brother and I talk all the time and remind each other everyday that we love each other and are there no matter what.