I’m interested in the stories we tell ourselves in order to try to describe the feelings of accepting someone inside. It is mostly women and gay men who do this, but I suppose there might be a few others. What do the different stories go like? This feels good because… a physical thing? An emotional thing? Just the story you tell yourself? What is that story? What are the emotions? What determines if the physical experience is a good or bad one?

Of course, people are not always “accepting” someone inside. Sometimes they are invaded. What is the story that goes with that circumstance? Violation? Pain? Anger? Deserved it? Unfair? Doesn’t matter?

Topics: love, philosophy, sex, human behavior, emotions, feelings, hate, NSFW