No. Don’t ask her to shave it. It’s really none of your business. How does it hurt you? Oh, you’re embarrassed? Well don’t look to me for pity. I think that’s a pretty childish thing to be embarrassed about.
If someone is embarrassing themselves, then you might be doing them a favor. So if you really don’t think she knows, and if you really think everyone is staring at her, why not be honest and say, “your hair is sticking out and it embarrasses me.” If you can’t say that—if you can’t be honest about what is really behind this, then shut up.
When I was growing up—over half a century ago—no one thought anything about this. It’s just the way it was. It still is that way over most of the world. It’s just Americans with their supposed puritanical attitudes about cleanliness that have problems with this.
But you know what? What it really has to do with is the near ubiquitous access to porn. Everyone watches what is a porn trope, and then thinks that’s the way it is supposed to be. For Christ’s sake! Boys are learning how to fuck from porn. They think every girl wants cum on her face!
If anyone tells someone else to shave, they might as well tell them to fuck in public. ‘Cause shame is what it’s all about. And prurience. Let’s bring our sexual nature out into public in a sanitized way. That way it will be possible for puritanical people to both exhibit it and pretend it isn’t there all at the same time. God forbid we should see someone’s pubic hair! We don’t want to think about sex. Let’s shave it all off and pretend we are innocent. It is about as hypocritical as you get get and yet people are defending it as hygiene! Hygiene!
Someone. Please. Take me back to the 70’s!