@Magdalene, “Why is it so that people act too rude to you even when you have been always helpful to them? Why do they forget favors that you did to them when they needed help badly?”
Because you allow them to treat you that way by continuing to give them one more chance. I try very hard to not have people like that in my life. Life is too short and there are too many people who are great to be around and to spend time with.
I’m learning to disassociate with family members who are like this as well. It is a learning process for me. I have a short memory and think, “Oh, they’ve changed. This time will be different.” I’m learning to not answer the phone when they call. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.