I thought it would be a good idea to try and dye my own hair at home. Oops. I used to have light brown hair with lots of blonde highlights. I wanted to go back to my natural medium dark brown color. I dyed it at home. It worked. But it’s way too dark. Almost black. I’m too pale to pull this color off and I can’t tan anytime soon because I’m pregnant. So what’s the best option here? I know buying another box of lighter color won’t lighten my hair. Should I just go get highlights added again (by a professional) to break up the dark color? Or should I give it some time and hope it fades? The box says the color won’t fade for 28 washes :-( Help!