We are the cumulative of many things, not just photo or names but things we say, opinions we have and how we respond to other people (other jellies). As I have said in the past the connection we make over the internet is strange, it is very intellectual and emotional while being casual and as disposable as the ease of flipping an on/off switch. It’s a paradox in how shallow it is but yet can forces us to relate on those plains. I find freedom in anonymity, although I have surrendered disclosure many times.
I will do all I can to be nothing short of real, to the point of it being a detriment. I hope I never represent myself as being anything as far less than perfect.
I wouldn’t say half of what I say here on facebook. On facebook, I feel very boxed in. Guess that doesn’t say much about my representation of myself to the real world. In some ways I know people here better.
So to answer the question, do I trust my veiled Jellies, yes I do. I trust them to be exactly who they are without inhibition. Whether we rub each other wrong or share similar opinions. I respect and appreciate those I clash with, in broadening my mind and awareness of other vantage points, as well as those I agree with.
Regarding the concern of perverts or other sick people, if someone is pretending I don’t think it will take long for their nature and intent to shine through. I would hope that all the younger women on here would be able to discern someone’s actions and words. I always suspected Zen to be a 13 year old girl, lol, not really.