1. Don’t take your stuff out on me
2. Don’t lie to me
3. Don’t manipulate me
4. Don’t play mind games with me
I just let go of a ‘friend’ of 7 years when I became aware of her manipulative passive aggressive side. I confronted her and, her reaction told me everything I needed to know.
She played dumb & innocent, feigned not ‘remembering’, tried to tell me she DID ask, argued for her ‘intentions’, and, then, of course, the coupe de gras…the GUILT trip! lol
” I just don’t understand WHY you had a problem with this!”
Then…classic PA ‘punishment’, she gave ME the silent treatment for a month. haha
Didn’t work, and I told her that she had SHOWN me, through her actions, that she was not a safe to confront person. That we should just leave it with the saying ” there are reasons and seasons for all relationships” and that OUR season was OVER!
Can’t paste the leaf back on the tree after it’s fallen. lol
It didn’t go well and she got very upset, more guilt tripping….blah, blah, blah….
Another month of silence, then, a guilt tripping voicemail.
I told her to not contact me anymore.
I am very comfortable with my decision. I have no desire to deal with emotionally immature people. See ya…save the drama for your mama. :-)