I’m getting married in two weeks and some of my close friends had already planned to go out of town the weekend before the wedding. Now, one of my cousins, who I’m not really close to, is insisting on having a bacholerette party for me this Sunday. BUT… she wants to get a stripper, even though I had already previously told her I DON’T LIKE STRIPPERS!!! So now I’m trying to be polite by letting her do her thing but I really don’t want this guy all over me at the party. I have a thing about strange men touching me or being too close. How can I tell my cousin that I don’t want this guy dancing specifically for me? I don’t care what her and her friends do with this guy, I just don’t want to be in the middle of it.