You may think that you have little clue about what guys want, but I want to assure you that guys have even less of a clue about what you want. But there are all different kinds of issues.
Some guys are over-confident, and think they are god’s gift to women and they act like that around women. Entitled. Put out or get out. These guys may be athletes or hunks or are just so damn cute that girls can’t stay away from them. Because they have it easy with girls, they can easily become assholes.
On the other end of the spectrum there are guys who are so afraid of being shot down by a girl that they never ask anyone for a date. These guys might think they are ugly and really have nothing to offer a girl since they don’t look like a hunk. You’ll never notice these guys because they try to look as unnoticeable as possible, as their eyes follow you as you walk down the hall.
One thing that I think a lot of girls overestimate is guys ability to notice their signals. You have to practically beat most guys over the head before they notice you are trying to signal them. So many of us have no clue about the looks you give us, or even that you might be watching us, or if you are, we think it’s a mistake or doesn’t mean anything.
We stammer. Our faces turn red. We think we’re uncool. We are embarrassed when you try to talk to us and we can’t think of anything to say, and everything we do say is really dorky.
Girls are always trying to read guys as if they were girls. We’re not. We’re not nearly as complicated as you think we are. Just think of us as stupid oafs who don’t have a clue about girl language. Everything you think you are saying is going right past our heads.
Of course, it depends on the guy. It depends on what category they are in. Are they smart and observant? Are they pure confidence? Are they the magical disappearing boy? You got to figure that one out by observing the boy. Good luck!