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I don't know what to do in this relationship anymore...

I’ve been with my boyfriend since January. He is my first everything and I really like him a lot. But right now we’re on a ‘break’ as he likes to call it, until he comes back to school in September since we live 3 hours away. A few weeks ago I noticed that he’d been posting twitter updates that didn’t really make sense to me, and made me suspicious that he was pursuing another girl. I did some digging and found that he recently started following his ex on Twitter and put two and two together and figured he was after his ex again. Whenever he’d talk about her to me he’d say how immature she is and how awful things were when they ended. So I was confused as to why he’d suddenly start following someone he could only speak badly of. Really hurt by this, I confronted him and he told me he only wants to talk to her and that she “hates him” and nothing would happen. Although less often, he still posts the odd twitter update that leaves me wondering if there’s more going on than he’s telling me. I also checked out his ex’s profile (I know, bad of me but I can’t help myself)... and she’s posting all these lovey-dovey updates. I don’t really know what to think. Also, I asked a question the other day about how he seems to morbid and depressed lately. Sometimes he just won’t talk to me at all. He never even says he misses me anymore. Lately I’ve been thinking that I should just leave him so I don’t have to hurt so much anymore… but I don’t want to. I’m 18 and this is my first relationship ever. Any advice on what I should do? Should I talk to him about this or will it just cause another fight?

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