I haven’t ever been able to actually hate anyone. I tend to make excuses for people, for their actions, for their behaviour. I used to have a friend who would steal from me, and was quite shameless in mooching from me, I mean seriously, if i was paying, which was always, she’d have double portions of everything, and still expect money etc handed to her, and would just whine at me till she got whatever it was she wanted. She, along with another friend made such an idiot of me, but I didn’t end the relationships for many, many years, and eventually I only managed to cut them out of my life because 1. one of them had done something really unforgivable to me and had hurt me to such a degree that…. well even now, years later, the hurt is just as painful, and 2. because we moved away from them. If we lived close enough they would start visiting again and I’d go back to making excuses for them, for their behaviour. As I said, I haven’t ever been able to truly hate anyone, not even when they’ve really hurt me.
This is a great question honey, and GA’s honeys
huggles xx