Depends where I meet them. Yeah, if it’s in the elevator or the lobby or crossing paths, then it’s certainly the weather. But usually I’m meeting people somewhere for a purpose or talking to them after a function. In those cases, we talk about things related to why we are there.
If the conversation expands, it’ll do it naturally. We’ll be talking about our lives. Children, spouses, work, fun, philosophy of life, the situation with medicine, writing, story telling, etc etc etc.
I hardly ever go to parties where I don’t know people any more. So I don’t run into strangers and try to start a conversation with them. If I did, and we made small talk, it would probably end like that. I need big talk or I’m too bored to stay there. Sometimes people will play along, and sometimes they look at me cross-eyed and tell me their spouse is signalling to them. No rings on their fingers, I might add!