@Blackberry I don’t know why people ask then. A lot of times white people, which I am, a white person, will mention that someone is black when it has absolutely no relevance to what they are saying about the person who is the subject of the conversation. Not so subtle racism. So, If your black friends do it too, well, I don’t know, maybe a little of the same thing. There seems to be, still, a lot of sensitivity, a lot of issues, some of them complicated and below the surface, for both white and black people when it comes to dating, when it comes to relationships, but I really don’t know why people feel the need to bring up race when it is completely irrelevant.