@Bellatrix Ok.
Well here’s a suggestion for you.
Practice the techniques yourself.
As your mastery improves, you’ll find yourself less concerned about what to advise people.
You’ll develop an uncanny ability to hear exactly what someone asks for.
And if it’s within your ability, you’ll give them exactly what they want or need, or point them in the right direction.
You know, occasionally I’ll re-read some of the things I’ve written on Fluther, especially advice.
Questions I’d forgotten I’d answered.
Some of those answers are so articulate and so profound I have to check the author’s name again because it’s hard to believe I wrote it.
It’s because I didn’t write it.
For a brief moment I allowed something other than “My Personality” to communicate.
That’s an effect of Simply Noticing at work.
I can always distinguish my “inspired” answers from my…eh…other answers.
My other answers are total nonsense.