Last night, I finally decided to leave my inhibitions behind and sleep with someone I have been seeing. As far as I could tell, we had become very close, talked about this being something ‘more’, and had everything in common. We talk every day, and had been making plans to do many things together.

Anyway, we slept together and it was intimate and satisfying. Everything seemed normal. Anyway early in the morning he woke up and told me he needed to move his car so he didn’t get a ticket. I realised what was going on when he didn’t pick up the key to let himself back in.

He sent me a text saying he couldn’t park anywhere (?!) (its free on Sundays) and he was going home to sleep, and would be back later. He didn’t say goodbye or anything in person, and took all his things to ‘move his car’.

Anyway, I sent a message and said “thanks for the hit and run. We won’t need to do this again. Cya.” He replied saying “don’t be so offended”. I didn’t respond, and received another message saying “Sorry.” and “Why are you so insulted, look, I’ll be back later”.

I told him not to bother. I deleted him off of facebook.

Is it unreasonable that I am offended and insulted, and have decided cut this guy out? Would any decent guy actually do something like that?