@Hypocrisy_Central Okay. That is exactly why I wanted to ask the question.
I literally wanted to get a sense from the GLBT community on Fluther whether they have an expectation that a primarily gay club is exclusive. If they want to go to a bar that has a lot of straight and gay people, I assume they go to the local chain restaurant.
Again, in my head, I figure gay people have a lot of crap to put up with. If they replied en mass to my question saying we go to gay bars to relax without having to pretend to be straight, I would say good to know, I will not go. To go knowing that, in my opinion, would be an imposition, a violation of sorts.
As most of them say they could care less, I feel a little better that I am not stepping on toes.
Of course, they could go to a private club, as you suggest. And it is a free country, and I can go where I am not wanted if I elect too.