I have personally gone through this type of abuse among others. Although I consider myself to be generally past it – recovered and even past forgiveness – I find that it’s still an issue (not with me, but with others when they find out about it).

Why do we punish the victims more than they have already been tormented? Why is this so much more prominent with male rape?

Great read on topic, you may lose your lunch though so be warned: http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2011/jul/17/the-rape-of-men

Discuss freely on topic.