I don’t know if you are hearing what people are saying. Let me ask you, why do you want to make a guy want you?
If you somehow can control a guy, will you be able to respect him? If you manipulate him into loving you, will you ever feel secure? You’ll know that as soon as the spell wears off, he’ll be gone.
Most people want a guy or a girl to love them just because they love them, not because of any tricks. Most of us want to feel like we are complete people who are lovable as we are, not by pretending to be someone else.
When you ask how you can make someone want a relationship with you, it makes you sound desperate and insecure. You don’t believe he will love you if you are just yourself. You seem to believe you have to change yourself in order to get love.
Sure, a lot of people believe they need to change themselves in order to interest someone else. The sad truth is that it never works. It might work for a short time, but the truth always comes out. It’s just not worth pretending to be someone you aren’t.