To be truly healthy in the psychic sense ones thoughts, words and actions need to be congruent.
This is the difference between a fraudulent personality and an authentic, genuine personality.
I have let go of two hypocritical friends this year.
Both always claimed to be ‘victims’ of others wrongdoings but failed to see their own hypocrisy.
The first was enraged and devastated that a boyfriend had taken another woman to lunch while they were officially broken up, yet she justified screwing around on him when she back in the relationship and refused to come clean with the boyfriend. Of course there were other issues with her I was waking up to, but, when she pulled this hypocritical justification to absolve herself from her own duplicitous behaviors I was unable to look away any longer.
The 2nd ‘friend’ was a self promoting and self righteous type that saw herself as the arch angel of the world, always done wrong by inspite of being such a ‘caring’ and generous person.
She was always making claims of her moral superiority and how she would always apologize IF she ever did anything wrong or harmful to another.
Hah!
Well…when I confronted her with some of her manipulative little games she flipped out and refused to take any responsibility and further attempted to manipulate me with just about every trick in the book.
Denial, guilt tripping, you name the game, she played it. haha
She picked the wrong person to play these games with and I immediately severed our relationship.
Actions always speak louder than words and true hypocrisy often comes from those that make the most moral noise about others yet fail to walk their own talk.
A picture may be worth a thousand words but, a hypocrite is worth a thousand false claims as to their integrity. lol