@lisa1471 If your friend is weak and can’t handle the truth, then she has much bigger problems than we even suspected. She’s an adult, she’s pregnant, her husband is cheating on her. She has to handle the truth.
Have you or she (or both of you, since you seem to be the same person) talked to your clergy person about all of this cheating? I can’t imagine that there is a church in the world that would condone any of this.
Don’t you consider yourselves to be hypocrites? And if not, what is your reasoning?
Can you help us to understand why you have written a story on your profile page that sounds exactly like this problem with your “friend.”? Why would you and so many of your church going friends think it’s OK to commit adultery?
And why would you think that your “friend’s” husband is a good man, if he is cheating on her. Cheating husbands are one of the definitions of a bad husband, or at least one of the symptoms.
Do any of you folks know, that there are plenty of un-married people that would be thrilled to be part of your Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice scenario that won’t be hurt and don’t have any children that could be hurt. Why not hook up with single, available people instead of being homewreckers?
And last, but not least, do any of you Flutherers recognize the OP? She or he was on here under a different name about 4 months ago talking about this same stuff. Same cheating scenario with a married man at church. Same lack of writing skills.