@SamIAm Ok, so he seemed willing to let you order the next time, maybe just wanted to surprise you. Maybe he likes that sort of surprise thing when he does it for others, and maybe when people do it to or for him. I go back to it being a personality thing, I don’t like surprises much.
Although, I am curious, have you wound up in relationships where the men are very controlling? I only ask, because maybe you need to be wary of your own pattern if it is a pattern. What feels comfortable to you and normal might be distructive. I am not assuming it of you, as I said maybe you just like the adventurousness of it all.
Maybe you two are the perfect match? He does small things like this to show he was listening, and you love it. No problem with that.