I know for sure it’s not about how good-looking they are, butterflies, and all that crap. I feel like the infatuation phase is over for me so I question myself now if I will love my bf. We’ve seen each other for 7 months but official for almost 2 months.

He complements my life and he definitely makes it better and more fun. He’s attractive, shy, outgoing, adventurous, so sweet and considerate, very giving, when I see him he just brightens my day and I can’t help but smile. When I’m with him I just enjoy his company even if we’re not doing anything. He’s shown me how to live life (how cheesy does that sound?).

I don’t miss him when we’re apart. But I think maybe it’s cuz we spend so much time together and we always text/talk when we’re apart. I don’t have that urge to tell him I love him. I care about him but I don’t know if I love him. I can see his imperfections and still want him but I don’t think I’ve seen him at his worst…except maybe that worst hangover he had throwing up 10x lol. I still get a bit shy around him sometimes and I don’t know why…I’ve gotten a lot more comfortable around him but sometimes I’m shy to kiss him.

Even though infatuation is over there are some moments that happen randomly for a few seconds when I think about how great and wonderful he is but then I realize it’s just lust because I get butterflies

He’s 21, I’m 22. I had one 5 year relationship. He had 3 very short non serious. I fear that I will not love him since it’s been so long now…