@janbb Why are you generalizing from your fiancee to (many) women? Why not just ask a question about how to handle her issues? First off, since you were not apart of the conversation leading to this, I included other women because not only have I encountered it, I was warned of it by my brother, three friends, and my neighbor. They have all experienced in the past a woman that just could not let go of something and kept unearthing it in their relationship, when it had nothing to do with their relationship. Second, I can’t ask you or anyone else what to do or how to wise her up, change her thinking etc, until I know why she does it? If you have a circuit that keeps popping fuses do you try to find out why the current is not stable or do you just keep buying fuses and crossing your fingers?
@wundayatta ¬_It’s only you, @Hypocrisy_Central. They don’t hold grudges against anyone else._ ROFL The sarcasm there was almost dry enough to be effective. Surely you don’t intend that to be factual, because having to produce facts on that would be all hat and no cattle. Was good for a laugh though.
@Blackberry Ahhhhhh….the old conundrum, do guys act like dogs because they were made that way by a bitch, or are women made into bitches because they were dogged out? Yup, a conundrum.
@tom_g It’s because men are geared toward using logic in their approach to many issues that women default to using emotion as a tool to resolve. @mrrich724 I think condensed id down nicely. She feels they cheated on her because she was not pretty enough etc. So, I guess she sees all other women as competition, even though she has won, she can’t believe she has won, I point out to her logically time after time why that isn’t true and how when you add up things fact by fact, it is nothing like the relationships she had before.