I hope you aren’t insulted, but I wonder about your background. What nationality are you? What is your native language? What level of education do you have? What kind of work do you do? How long have you been married? How did you meet your husband? Where do you live? Is it common for husbands to have female friends that are much younger than they are and to cuddle and kiss them in front of their wives? Is it common for husbands to cry to the parents at age 37?
This stuff doesn’t make sense to me. I’ve never heard anything like it, and I’ve seen a lot. Your husband doesn’t seem very mature, but you also seem pretty passive. More passive than most American women would be. Is there some reason why you don’t feel you can say anything to your husband about this? Can you tell him your concerns? Are you afraid to talk to him?
All I can say is that this situation is very strange and I don’t know what to make of it. If you have an open relationship, then that’s one thing. But you sound concerned. I don’t know why you haven’t voiced your concerns to you husband. Why haven’t you told him you don’t want to see him kiss his girlfriend in front of you. What kind of kiss is it? A peck on the cheek or are they locking lips? What kind of cuddling is it? Do they just hug, or are they lying on the couch spooning? Does he touch her appropriately or intimately? Does he touch her breasts in front of you? Do they press themselves together?
What, exactly, is going on?