Fact from fiction, truth from diction. In my life’s travels I would have to say how sprung, or pussy whipped and dude was depended on how well the woman looked or how much money she had and was willing to pay. The less attractive and the heavier she was, she had to have more money, and be willing to lavish it on her man, even her part-time men. They have a saying, ”She pay like she weigh”. If she is an 8.5 to 10 she would have to be a nuclear skank bitch before many men who were single would stay away from her. She would have to be AAA toxic, but still good enough for a one-time boink. If she is a 7–8.5 she will still get play, so long is there are no better friends or women to choose from, other wise she will be regulated to ”wingman” status, the one not take as first choice or left over. 5–6.9 will have play if the action is slow. Supply and demand is always in play. 3–4.9 she will have to be like the only woman out on the oil rig so it is her or your hand. Those women lower than that are like the ones who marry the convict doing 15–20 because it is either her or the cell block’s gay guy.
If the guy is a 6 but the gal is an 8 she can have him wrapped around her finger butter than if she was with an equal 8 of a guy, because he don’t need her as much. He can go get another nibble in the pond where the #6 guy will feel he can’t get another 8 interested that easily and will have to settle for less.
Overall, most men, those I have met the past 40 years, are more ruled by their ”little head” over their big head, so I never knew why women did not exploit that weakness and run things more they than do now?