@talljasperman You’re welcome honey… I don’t know if I helped? Probably not much… But you know…
Making plans, is the very best way to let yourself down. If you are already stressed out, don’t put too much weight on planning.
Find your bliss baby love… Find what makes you happy as a human being. Whatever makes us happy is a life better lived.
Don’t ask what makes you the best person, unless that makes you happy
don’t ask what will make the most money, unless money will make you happy
don’t ask for love or support, unless that is really what will make you happy.
Laugh, laugh as much as you can, even if people find you utterly rediculous. It is freeing, Buddha under the bodai tree for all of his enlightenment at the end of his journey… he laughed.
WHat makes you happy? Don’t allow anyone to tell you anything other than what makes you personally happy.
That being said…
“Le bonheur est trouvĂ© en sachant que vous n’avez pas besoin de bonheur pour ĂȘtre heureux”
“Happiness is found in the knowing that you do not necessarily require it in order to be happy.”
Sartre