I have a very close girl in my life. I guess you could call her my girflfriend but she’s always been afraid to make it official. I like to think I’m always very warm and kind to her. Recently, however, she keeps pushing me away. I’ve been going through some difficult, messed up family stuff in my life recently and instead of drawing us closer together it’s pushing us apart. She’s the one pushing me away, though. I know this is kind of general but any advice?